Monday, January 8, 2018

Hair Shaming!!!!

When I hear someone make or post a comment (via Facebook) like

"I understand the natural hair thing but comb your hair."  

I'm like...No you don't and you sound stupid....lol

This hairstyle was achieved without combing my hair.  Yes these are Locs!!!:))

Another hairstyle that was achieved without combing my hair. I used my fingers to detangle my hair then I braided my hair while it was wet.  The next day I took out my braids and this is how I rocked my natural uncombed hair...

Here is another comment I see all the time

 "I'm natural but I don't understand that hairstyle"

I'm like you are not suppose to because it's not your hair...duh..

Just because you are natural that does not give you the right to judge someone for rocking their natural hair a different way. My braid out or locs will not look like everybody else with natural hair for couple of reasons.

  • My texture is different
  • The density of my hair is different
  • The length of my hair is different
  • My hair color is different


I'm so tired of people saying negative things about other people who choose to wear their hair natural. So this is what I have to say to them:


  • Stop hair shaming!!!
  • If body shaming is wrong then so is hair shaming!!!
  • If racism is wrong then so is hair shaming!!!
  • If bullying is wrong then so is hair shaming!!!
  • If sex discrimination is wrong then so is hair shaming!!!
  • If age discrimination is wrong then so is hair shaming!!!


Hair shaming is wrong point blank period...So stop it!!!!


Well guys that's all I have for my first blog in 2018...lol


Yes I was annoyed but now I'm over it...lol


Thank you everyone for reading my blog.  Stay happy, natural and healthy:)

Love,

Sunday, September 17, 2017

New Look!!!!

Hello everyone!!!

Check out my new look!!!




I decided to reopen my Etsy shop with a new image, name and concept.

Check out my shop by clicking on the link below:
www.etsy.com/shop/BodyButtersBydLd

The body butters that I make in my shop are made with all natural ingredients that will moisturize your skin.  My  homemade body butter will leave your skin feeling, looking and smelling amazing. As an added benefit the product can be used as a conditioner for kinky curly, curly or dry hair.

Thank you,
Twanna Davis

www.etsy.com/shop/BodyButtersBydLd
https://fitnessismytherapyblog.wordpress.com/
divadesertlocs@gmail.com
youtube.com/user/Divadesertlocs

Thursday, April 23, 2015

Loving Natural Hair


To love natural hair means to have knowledge about it, to accept it and to appreciate it.  

Knowledge is power and it matters.  Natural hair is hair texture that has not been altered by chemical straighteners, including relaxers and texturizers.  These chemicals are known to be very damaging to the hair and health.  That is why so many people with curly hair and kinky curly hair have decided to stop using them. 

Accepting that natural hair is like DNA is important. Textured hair comes in different lengths, curl type, and density.  Some people have course dry hair with a tight curl pattern while others have a loose curl pattern with soft hair.  Some individuals have thick strong hair while others have thin weak hair.  In other words all hair is different, understanding that will eliminate ignorant comments and promote self-love.  Accepting how natural hair looks and feels will help an individual to appreciate it better.

Appreciating natural hair promotes self-love.  I believe everyone should appreciate all forms of natural hair whether it's straight, curly, kinky curly, locs, wavy or in braids.  People all over are wearing their hair in its natural state. They are in our communities, jobs, schools, on the internet and on the streets.  Knowing, accepting and appreciating what natural hair is helps prevent harsh judgment towards one another and it promotes self-love.


Well guys that's all I have for you today.  Thank you everyone for reading my blog.  Stay happy, natural and healthy.

Love,
Diva Desert Locs

Friday, April 3, 2015

Skin Beauty, "Discover the real you...A Natural Healthy Look" Book Review

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What's Up!!!
What's Up Everyone!!!

Hi everyone, I hope everyone is doing well:)
 
Today I'm going to do a book review on Skin Beauty, "Discover the real you...A Natural Healthy Look" by Dawn Kinghorn. 

The author contacted me awhile ago on google plus and asked me to do a review on her book.  So I purchased the book online for $1.99 through amazon.com.  Check out the cover of the book below:



Skin Beauty: Discover the real you, a natural healthy look, is an enlighten book that teaches women how to achieve naturally healthy skin without breaking the bank.  Kinghorn does this by first telling readers her, three commandments of skincare which are clean, moisturize and protect.  Then she takes it a step further by giving great cost effective advise like getting enough sleep, laughing more, exercising, having good posture and grooming.  Not only does these things help with having beautiful skin naturally it will promote a positive attitude.

If you are interested and improving your skincare regimen.  I highly recommend purchasing this book it would be a good investment.

Skin Beauty: Discover the real you, a natural healthy look, can by purchased online at:

http://www.amazon.com/Skin-Beauty-Discover-natural-healthy-ebook/dp/B00B6RXVQ6/ref=asap_bc?ie=UTF8

You will need to download the Kindle App in order to read it and it's only $1.99.


That's all I have for you today.  Thank you everyone for reading my blog.  Stay happy, natural and healthy.


Thursday, November 13, 2014

A Must Read!!!!!!!!!!!!!



KenKay Hair I am by Kandra Ferguson, Illustrated by Mikemotz.com.

 Is a must have children's book for little girls with girls with Kinky Curly Hair.
I just read this book and I'm so excited. This book is about a little girl who hated her kinky, curly hair because it was not like everyone else. Then one her life was changed through prayers and meeting the right people.


The author's name is Kandra Ferguson who is the owner of Hair I am Hair Salon in Fayetteville NC. She holds a masters degree in psychology and she loves doing hair and educating people about hair and health.

The book can be purchased on Amazon:
http://www.amazon.com/KenKay-Hair-Am-Kandra-Fe…/…/1499742916


She will also be here in Vegas on Saturday November 15, 2014 attending the S.O.S natural hair meet up.  

Please the following for the time and location:
Bar & Bistro Bar+Bistro @ The Arts Factory
107 E. Charleston Blvd. suite 115, Las Vegas, NV
Time:  6:00pm to 7:30pm

That's all I have for you today.  Thank you everyone for reading my blog.  Stay happy, natural and healthy.

Love,

Diva Desert Locs

https://bodybuttersbydld.blogspot.com
https://fitnessismytherapyblog.wordpress.com/
divadesertlocs@gmail.com
youtube.com/user/Divadesertlocs

Thursday, August 28, 2014

TWA Update

What's up!!!

What's up everyone!!!

I hope everyone is doing well today:))


I'm great and I'm loving my TWA, which is such a surprise for me.  Back in the day I hated short hair.  My first two big chops were the worst stages for me during my natural hair journey.  But now I'm enjoying this stage so much that I'm thinking about leaving it short.  I find it much easier to maintain now.  I can do a wash n go with no problem, it takes me less time to do my hair, and I don't have to worry about detangling.



I must admit though I feel like I'm learning how to do my hair all over again.  It's been awhile since I wore my hair loose and a lot of new methods have surfaced.  Even though I have been natural for a total of seven years I'm still learning.  So far the best method for me is the LCO method (Liquid, Cream/Conditioner, Oil).



My favorites products so far are:

  • V05 Moisturizing Conditioner
  • V05 Clarifying Conditioner
  • Shea Moisture Raw Shea Butter Restorative Conditioner
  • Shea Moisture Dry Oil Mist
  • TRESemme Naturals
  • Castor Oil
  • Bentonite Clay
  • Aloe Vera Juice
  • Olive Oil
  • Rosemary Essential Oil
  • Ylang Ylang Oil
  • Lavender Oil

Checkout how I'm rocking hair now:


Afro





Scarf Headband

Tight Curly Method



Bow Headband

 I honestly believe it's not how you wear your hair, what clothes you wear or how beat your face is that makes a women beautiful.  It's about how she feels about herself on the inside.  Sometimes it's hard for woman to do that when the media, social media, people and family members are our biggest critics.  The best advice I can give is to ignore the drama and keep your head up.  Your confidence will shine through and show your beauty from within.


On that note, that is all I have for today.  Thank you everyone for reading my blog and your continued support.  Stay happy, natural and healthy.


Love,
Diva Desert Locs

Sunday, June 15, 2014

Yo What's Up With Diva Desert Locs!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

What's Up!!!
What's Up!!!
What's Up Everyone!!!!


I hope all is well with everyone.  I just wanted to pop in real quick and give you guys a quick update with what's going on with me.  First and for most I'm still blogging, I just haven't been able to do it in a while.  Life for me lately has been a big roller coaster ride but I'm thankful God has given me a life to experience.

Next, I decided to do the BIG CHOP because I was tired of battling with the lint in my locs.  There were also other reasons which I explain in the videos below.  I enclosed two videos, one with me doing the BIG CHOP and one that shows how my hair looks now:))



Now check out my TWA:))))


Thanks everyone for reading my blog and watching my videos:)))

That's all I have for you today.  Thank you everyone for reading my blog.  Stay happy, natural and healthy.
Love,
Diva Desert Locs

Friday, April 18, 2014

Las Vegas Meet Up Announcement!!!

What's up!!!
What's up!!!
What's up everyone!!!

I hope everyone is doing well:))

Yes Natural-n-Sassy is doing it again here in Vegas baby.  Come out and join us for the first Natural Hair Meet Up for 2014 on Saturday, May 3 at Craig P. Kenny & Associates 501 S. 8th Street (downtown), 4th floor, Las Vegas, NV 89101 from 3pm to 6:30pm

Check out the flyer below for more info:






The meet up is called Double Twist & Double Dutch isn't that cute?  Anyway we plan on networking with local naturals, sharing hair care tips, doing a big chop ceremony and getting our fitness on with a Double Dutch contest.


This meet up is going to be amazing so come out and join us.  I'm looking forward to meeting new people and catching up with some fabulous people that I haven't seen in a while:))) 

Oh yeah I almost forgot to mention that I will be a vendor at this meet up so if you're interested in trying my products but don't like buying them online.  Here is your chance to buy them in person and I will have samples available:)))

So RSVP @ www.nstlv514.eventbrite.com.  $5.00 Donation @door.

That's all I have for you today.  Thank you everyone for reading my blog.  Stay happy, natural and healthy.

Love,
Diva Desert Locs




Sunday, October 27, 2013

My Love For My Grandmother

The saddest day of my life was on 7/27/2013 when my youngest sister called me to let me know that my grandmother past away.  A lot of things ran through my mind.  First was the last time I spoke to her which was a refreshing conversation for me because I'm 5,000 miles away and it was great just to hear her voice.  I was missing her and she was missing me, the kids and my husband.

NOW I WILL NEVER BE ABLE TO TALK TO HER AGAIN:(

First let me start off by saying my grandmother was the greatest person I ever known.  Any and everybody that ever came into contact with her instantly fell in love with her.  Even though I'm her granddaughter through married she treated me no different than any of her other children.  I remember the first time I met her technically.  She said to me "Ah shocks, I remember when you use to come in here and dig in my garbage."  I was a sassy 10 year old little girl at the time and was like what me?  She said, "Yes you use to come in here and go straight for the garbage all the time." We all started laughing. You see that’s how she was.  She always made people feel comfortable in her home and around her through laughter.  That's when she explained to me that she knew me since I was 9 months. At that time my mother had an apartment on the 2nd floor in the same building.  Our relation grew and flourished from that point on.  She taught me how to crochet, cook and tried to teach me when to keep my sassy mouth shut.  I've learned so much from her and I really appreciate having her in my life.

Thank you God for allowing my grandma to live a full life and for putting her in my life at the right time.

That's all I have you today.  Thank you everyone for reading my blog.  Stay happy, natural and healthy.

Love,
Diva Desert Locs





Monday, July 15, 2013

HOTD Tutorial



What's up everyone!!!!  This is a quick video showing you how I style my hair with my new hair cut. 

Thank you,
Diva Desert Locs

Thursday, July 4, 2013

Las Vegas Natural Hair Care Expo

What's up!!!
What's up!!!
What's up everyone!!!

I hope everyone is doing well:))

Yes you read the title right, The Natural Hair Care Expo Evolution Tour is coming to Vegas...  Check it out....


It's going to be on 9/21/13 from 11am to 7pm at the Palace Station Hotel & Casino, 2411 W. Sahara Ave., Las Vegas NV 89102.  Tickets are $15.00 in advance and $20.00 at the door.

What you can expect at the expo:

  • Natural Hair Care Tips
  • Holistic Healing
  • Wearable Art
  • Free Classes
  • Awesome Vendors
  • Fashion Show
  • Entertainers
  • And so much more

Sponsors already on board:

  • Design Essentials Natural
  • Dreadz N' Headz
  • Mizani
  • Texture MY Way, natural hair therapies
  • Natural Hair Care Expo
  • Build Wealth Beyond The Chair

For more information please contact Natural & Sassy at 702-625-1970 or the tour contact Malaika Cooper at 410-298-0660.

Come out and join us it will be fun, exciting and informative:))))  Oh yeah did I mention that your very own Diva Desert Locs will be there selling products on site and giving out natural hair care tips.  Yay I'm so excited!!!!!!!!!!!

If you want to be apart of the Evolution Tour there is still time.  We still need the following:

  • Vendors
  • Sponsors
  • Speakers
  • Talent
  • Hair Stylists
  • Make-Up Artists
  • & Fitness Experts

For more information please visit the following websites:
www.naturalhaircareexpo.com
www.bmorenaturalinc.com


That's all I have you today.  Thank you everyone for reading my blog.  Stay happy, natural and healthy.

Love,
Diva Desert Locs

Wednesday, May 22, 2013

The Benefits Of Lavender Water

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What's Up Everyone!!!





Lavender is one of the most widely used versatile herbs known today. It's extremely useful and beneficial that's why I love it.  It contains antibiotic, antiseptic, disinfectant, antiviral and anti-inflammatory properties which makes it great for treating a variety of ailments.  Lavender essential oil smells great, the aroma is pleasant and soothing. 


Check out some of the ways to use Lavender Water:

Spray a gentle mist on your face and skin to instantly refresh your mind   and body.
Mist before and after applying make-up, tweezing, or waxing to soothe and protect skin.
Mist for sunburns, bug bites, and rashes for quick pain relief.
Mist after your shower or mix with bath salts for a luxurious bath after a long day.
Use it as an organic air freshener.
Center yourself during a tough day at work.
Use organic lavender before and after yoga.
Make a clay mask by mixing lavender water with clay and oil for a facial mask.
Spritz daily to remedy wrinkles, acne, skin redness, stress and improve blood circulation.
Use Lavender Water Mist to prime, hydrate, blend with foundation, and use as the finishing touch to powder makeup.
Use to calm tense nerves at work and treat sore muscles after a long day.

Wow isn’t that amazing and beneficial?  What do you think?  Do you use Lavender Water and if so what do you use it for?

Please let me know in the comments below:)


That's all I have for you today everyone thanks for your continued support and for reading my blog:)))

Remember to stay, healthy, natural and happy!!!

Love,
Diva Desert Locs




     

Monday, April 29, 2013

Come out to the ArtBeat Event !!!!!!

What's up!!!
What's up!!!
What's up everyone!!!
I hope everyone is doing well:))

I'm excited to announce that I'm going to be selling my products in person on the 5/3, 5/31, 9/20 and 10/18 at the following event:

ArtBeat Presented by Target is a FREE cultural series incorporating family-friendly activities that celebrate and educate the community on diverse world arts, entertainment and traditions with art displays, crafts, demonstrations and concerts. The pre-show activities begin at 6:30 p.m., followed by a concert at 8 p.m., at the Henderson Events Plaza, 200 S. Water Street, in the Water Street District. All performances will take place, rain or shine.

Come out everyone and let's have some fun:))

Thank you,

Love,
Diva Desert Locs



Friday, March 15, 2013

What's Up!!!
What's Up!!!
What's Up Everyone!!!
 
Check my latest video:))
 
I'm doing a giveaway and would like all of you to have a chance to win some new products.
 
 
Thank you,
Diva Desert Locs

Wednesday, January 30, 2013

The Benefits Of Shea Butter

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What's up!!!
What's up Everyone!!!



Shea Butter is the fat extract from an African Shea tree nut.  It comes in a yellowish or ivory color and it's very buttery.  I like to use the ivory colored unrefined raw organic Shea Butter from Ghana in my products.  From experience I believe it is the purest quality butter and I only want to offer the best in my shop.

I absolutely love Shea Butter because it's such a great moisturizing butter.  If you have eczema, stretch marks, dry skin or dry hair use Shea Butter it will definitely help fix it.  It's a natural antioxidant that contains vitamin A, E, and F.  You can use it alone, mix it with essential oils or just purchase my one of my body butters:)))

The body butters that I make and sale are great moisturizing agents for the skin and it can be used on dry brittle hair. 

FYI.... I do not recommend using Shea Butter on locs or anyone that has a nut allergy....


If you are interested in purchasing one of my body butters or if you have any questions.  Please email at divadesertlocs@gmail or just leave a comment below.

That's all I have for you today everyone thanks for your continued support and for reading my blog:)))

Remember to stay, healthy, natural and happy!!!

Love,
Diva Desert Locs

Sunday, December 23, 2012

Happy Holidays Everyone!!!!

What's up!!!
What's up!!!
What's up everyone!!!


I would like to wish everyone a happy and safe holiday from my family to yours.

Thank you for your continued support and for reading my blogs:)))

Remember to stay healthy, natural, and happy!!!


Thank you,
Diva Desert Locs
youtube.com/user/Divadesertlocs
divadesertlocs@gmail.com